Weekend Plans/Questions
As, for tonight: I am not sure yet. I have planned to meet a client at
Saturday is going to be chilly, in the low 60s, but no rain. M made a tee time for
Sunday, I have no plans at all. I might go see the De Vinci Code movie. It is playing at
Oh, another thing… anyone that read before that I changed the air filter in my car because the infamous “check-engine” light came on, but it didn’t fix the problem… Guess what??? It when off this week!!! Whoo Hoo!! Maybe it just took driving it a little while after replacing the filter. This is good news because you just never know what a mechanic is going to say on that one.
I also have a question for blog land. A little background first… Last year, I was dating (?) someone from work… I know, I know… never a good idea, but when you spend so much time there, it’s bound to happen. Anyway, she is my age, good looking, nice rack (that was for you ell) great personality and loves to golf (actually can kick my ass from the whites!!!)… a pretty good match, all-n-all. We ended up breaking it off around September. It was no big deal still working together, because of our jobs. There is really very little need for us to talk or have contact, unless we choose to. Well, this week, she has been very friendly. Coming by my office once in a while, peeking her head in when before she would just pass by… The day before yesterday, she stopped & suggested we hang out Memorial Day weekend. Maybe drive up to Sharron PA to play some golf. She wanted me to suggest it to my friend M. Her & M always got along . M was my friend before her & I dated, it never bothered her that we were good friends. So, she was like, why don’t you ask M if she wants to go too. Therefore,
Questions: Is she tring to get back together?; Do you think she just wants to play golf?; Even if she wants to get back together, should I even try (I have always had this rule… never go back, if it didn’t work the first time, why would it a second)?; Am I over analyzing this?
Your thoughts will be appreciated.
11 Comments:
Women.........
M is a woman, right? So it's not possible the ex could be interested in the friend?
It's early, I'm slow this morning...be patient
I need some more 411...she ever been married? Does she have children?
I don't think she just wants to play golf but I need more information!
sounds promising.. if you want it to be.
In certain situations there is nothing wrong with going back.. did it end amicably? Do you still find her attractive? Did she rock your world?
I say.. don't read too much into it. Go and have fun. See where it takes you.
That's my opinion...
Have a great weekend!
M is a woman, just friends.
She was married, got dumped by the X. No kids.
OK...hmmm maybe just golf but I highly doubt it. If she's like many errr...40 is the new 30 somethings she's after more than golf.
TAKE M WITH YOU. IF SHE STILL FLIRTS WITH YOU WITH M AROUND, IT COULD BE MORE THEN JUST GOLF AND FLIRTING.
SHE MIGHT HAVE INVITED M TO TEST YOU. TO SEE IF THERE IS ANYTHIG BETWEEN YOU TWO SO SHE CAN DECIDE WHAT TO DO NEXT.
COULD BE SHE'S LONELY AND NEEDS SOME COMPANY.
WHAT EVER HAPPENS, DON'T LET IT INTERRUPT YOUR TRAVEL PLANS IN JULY!!!
Thanks for the input.
She knows there is nothing between M & me. That is not an issue. I was thinking either; 1. she just wants to golf & hang out (believe it or not, I CAN be fun)& M being there is like "girl safety"; 2. she is making it known that she wants to try again; or 3. she just wants to be "friends" (also another rule, ain't happening)
DEPENDS ON WHAT TYPE OF FRIEND SHE WANTS TO BE, RIGHT?
No telling! Just go, have fun, what happens, happens!
Afternoon, Knight!
definitely sounds like she's looking for more than golf.
question: was she in a relationship since you two broke up that is over now? if so, could be a "rebound" thing. i'd go and have fun, if you don't want it to be anything more than golf, so be it. (but i know a good rack is SO hard to resist!)
glad the car's back to normal.
Guess that internet thing worked out for you?
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